Does anyone husband snore loudly and how do you get a good night sleep?
December 13th, 2009 Filed Under Uncategorized
Does anyone husband snore loudly and how do you get a good night sleep?
Last night I could not sleep so at about 3 in the morning I woke my husband up and told him I am really tired and you are snoring to loud. He moved to the living room then came back later in the night I guess because when I woke up he was in the bed. This morning he said sorry for snoring loud but what did I want him to do he cant help it. I asked him to start going to the gym because he is really getting overweight and I am sure that may be the problem. He has always snored but for some reason now it is really loud. Then he said I don't know , you see this is a conversation we have had many times especially when I first started noticing how loud it was getting. He always says I'll see what I can do and does nothing. So I said to him you always say I'll see what I can do and don't do anything . You just say that to shut me up. Then he gets an attitude ad tells me that is an inward problem that I have to deal with in myself. {How freaking rude}. It is from past experience we have been together 10 years this is from being with him. {We met in college and are now 30 years old} I truly believe a half hour on the treadmill would help.Now he is not talking to me and acting really sensitive he all of his answers are short or one word answers. He says I'll just sleep in the living room from now on and I told him I don't want him to do that then he started just ignoring my suggestions. So I said well should I just take medicine to help me sleep he said yea why don't you do that and rolled over. You see we just had a baby and I am getting ready to go back to work so I can't stay up all night like I can on maternity leave and by the time I finish pumping milk before I sleep I feel drained and really need to sleep. Now he is sulking in the living room. Do you think I hurt his feelings but I don't know a better way to approach the situation but telling him straight out. I have tried suggesting things talking nice about it and last night I was so tired I could of just cried. So I {not in a mean way} asked him to loose weight I even tried to work out a schedule around my daughter time and work that he could go three times a week but he does not want to hear it. Another thing we also have a business we run {a dance school and dance company} that takes a lot of time and he handles all of the behind the scene work while I handle the in front work like the kids, parents, grants. I know that takes time plus we are in the middle of taking a class for the teaching test. We do have a lot going on but I have the same things going on and I have to still breast feed , work out, take care of the house and take care of the baby. I am not bragging I am just saying if we work together it can be done I don't think this no sleeping is healthy for me and I feel he is being so selfish and putting me in a corner having to tip toe around the subject. I know that was a lot but was I wrong {he is sitting in the room by his self} I didn't want to hurt his feeling but what do I do? Is the right thing to never say anything so I can protect my marriage my daughter sleeps in the room with us she is able to sleep right through {She is 3 months} maybe it is just me. But now she is up and I had 4 hours sleep and I have to breast feed her. Please help beside that we have a really good marriage but sleep is important I don't know what to do
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